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HOW DO I CONTACT ANOTHER MEMBER?
If you come across a member you like, you can invite them to view your profile, or you can send them a message directly by choosing the relevant option from their profile. These options also appear within the search results.
WHAT DOES THE "INVITE TO VIEW MY PROFILE" OPTION DO?
The other member will have an alert notification from you to invite them to view your profile. This is especially useful if you'd like to "test the water" by seeing if
there is mutual compatibility first, and invite them to get in touch with you. It's also
useful for those who are too shy to take that first step, but want to indicate attraction in the other member.
WHAT KIND OF THINGS CAN WE DISCUSS IN OUR MESSAGES?
You can discuss anything you like, so long as it's with a view to finding out about
the person in order to decide whether or not you want to marry them. Please
remember you're not here to make online friends, you are here to find a spouse.
Thus, please keep your conversations in line with this goal, and also within the boundaries of the shariah.
HOW MUCH TIME SHOULD I GIVE FOR REPLIES?
Try to reply as soon as possible, as no-one likes to be left hanging. If you do not reply for some time, the other user may suspect that you are no longer interested. Be fair to the other party, and don't waste their time if you're not interested. If you're going to be busy, let them know. They will appreciate your honesty.
I RECEIVED AN ERROR SAYING I CAN'T SEND ANY MORE MESSAGES.
We recognise that members may be communicating with more than one member
at a time in the search for a marriage partner. However, in order to ensure that our members are serious in their communications, and aren't simply spamming other members, we've implemented a limit as to how many conversations a user can be
engaged in at any one time. If you attempt to open more conversation than this limit, you will see this error message. We encourage our members to complete their conversations with those users with whom they're already engaged, rather than pursuing other options.